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Back to School: How to Ensure Children Are Safe

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Going Back to School: Tips on How To Ensure Children Are Safe. 

Is It Safe For Your Children To Go Back to School?

How to ensure children are safe to return to school is a serious thought in every parent’s mind.

Back-to-School 2020 is a TIME like no other.

Gone are the jovial crowds, jostling to find the best deals on school supplies like markers, pencils, notebooks, and Kleenex.

Stores are quiet.

Silent, masked individuals move around the stores, not taking the effort to talk or make eye contact since no one can see their smile.

Stores hide their back-to-school items, uniforms, and school supplies along the back wall instead of broadcasting their sales in the front lobby.

This year doesn’t look like it usually does. The hesitance is tangible.

It’s time for school, but no one knows what that really means.

In some states, no one knows for sure when and if schools will ever start.

When educational facilities finally open their doors, what will school look like?

Parents have to make quick decisions with ever-changing situations.

They feel the weight of the world on their shoulders.

If they send their children to a traditional school, are they compromising their own health and the health of their kids, the teachers, grandparents, school workers, and staff?

The school does not just provide academics to children.

Students also learn social and emotional skills and access to mental and special needs support.

Students also have access to computers, the internet, and other vital services in a school setting.

Parents should be aware of what the school’s policies are concerning children’s safety while in school.

On the other hand, if they keep their children at home, are they separating their children from the necessary social and emotional support they normally get through time with friends?

What steps can parents take to ensure their children are safe?

How can you as a parent make the wisest choice, and how can you ensure your children are safe?

What is the parent’s role in keeping those precious little ones healthy during the back-to-school rush?

Let’s explore some tips from a parent on how to ensure your children are safe to go back to school no matter what option you have chosen.

While implementing these tips,  it is my prayer that the Lord will guide you into making the right decision and I pray that the Lord protects and shields every child and family from all harm and danger.

1. Stay Updated on CDC Guidelines. 

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The most reliable resource to refer to when making safety-related COVID-19 decisions for you and your family is the CDC.

The CDC has a section dedicated to providing information about COVID-19 and how it relates to childcare at this link: https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/community/schools-childcare/index.html.

Being on top of CDC guidelines will help you make sure your child’s school is operating in the safest and most efficient way possible.

For the most part, you need to teach your children about the importance of wearing the mask or cloth face covering, hand washing techniques, and social distancing.

This will help guide decisions such as whether or not your child should go back to school and will help give insight into things you can do on your end to ensure they’re safe going back to school.

2. Check Your School’s Safety Policy.

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In a traditional school setting, an easy first step is checking the school’s mask and safety policies in the classroom and in outdoor spaces.

Some schools are flexible about masks, only using them when absolutely vital to keep state mandates.

Other schools strictly enforce mask usage.

Some schools are going to great lengths to ensure that children do not mingle in hallways, common areas, recess, and the lunchroom.

Instead, children limit their interaction with the people in their own classrooms.

These measures can be very helpful in holding back the spread of the virus, allowing schools to easily isolate rooms that may become infected without shutting down the entire school.

Find out the school’s policy on washing hands, sanitizing equipment and high-touch surfaces, social distancing, mask usage, and other personal protective-PPE measures.

Make sure that their standards of operation are in line with the CDC’s recommendations.

3. Cleanliness During Transitions To and From School.

When your child leaves for school, make sure they are equipped with a mask and personal hand sanitizer.

Teach him or her to use hand sanitizer when on the bus and when leaving school for the day.

There are many cute children themed sanitizers on Amazon that will encourage children to use them.

They can attach these portable hand sanitizers to their book bags for decoration.

Arriving home in the afternoon, have a designated area where soiled school items, such as backpacks, are placed.

Your child should thoroughly wash their hands with soap and water according to CDC guidelines and change their clothes immediately after arriving.

Later, when it’s time to sign papers and do homework, treat the school items as you would any germ-laden item, such as currency.

Teach your child to wash his or her hands after using items from his or her backpack, and not to touch their eyes or face while handling school items.

Temperature Checks: You should plan to monitor your children’s health at home especially their temperature with a thermometer (not the back of your hand).

The child should stay home if they have a temperature of 100.4 degrees or greater or any signs of not feeling well.

These important steps will help keep your children safe and healthy.

4. Homeschooling.

Home schooling

While the CDC does not provide scientific studies that suggest that COVID-19 transmission may be low among children, they stress that this is the case when proper protocol is followed.

You may find that your child’s school might not follow the COVID-19 protocol that is the safest or most efficient.

When you choose some form of homeschooling, social distancing becomes much more efficient and effective.

If you or one of your children has a health problem that would put you at significant risk were you to contract the virus, you may find that schooling or distant learning from home is the most viable option.

Getting some homeschooling ideas can help you to effectively provide good targeted educational instruction to your children.

An accompanying homeschool planner and activity journal are resources that can make homeschooling easier.

Here’s the link to CDC guidelines for keeping the home safe; https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/prevent-getting-sick/disinfecting-your-home.html#:~:text=%2D%20Wear%20reusable%20or%20disposable,water%20for%2020%20seconds.

Whether using the school’s online curriculum or your own, homeschooling provides a way to stay away from out of your control germs and contagions.

Keeping your child at home becomes an automatic safety mechanism for helping your child stay healthy.

While homeschooling, do not forget or neglect spirituality.

Nurturing spirituality in a child early leads to the development of a more harmonious and meaningful life.

Proverbs 22:6 says to; “Direct your children onto the right path, and when they are older, they will not leave it.”

If you are not sure if homeschooling is what you and your family needs, the CDC has a great decision-making tool for families to refer to at this link. https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/community/schools-childcare/decision-tool.html

5. Avoid Stranger Danger.

When you choose to keep your child at home, you may elect to hire a tutor to guide him or her through the online curriculum.

Like any babysitter, this tutor must be thoroughly vetted. Will the tutor provide effective emotional support, or will she dismiss your child’s fears and needs?

Does your tutor have plenty of thorough references, a background check, and other proof that they are safe to be around children?

After you hire a tutor, listen to your children and what they tell you about the way their tutor treats them.

Don’t just go with the flow because hiring a tutor is cheaper than a private school.

Keeping your children safe from the virus will mean nothing if they are not safe from their in-home teacher too.

6. Being a Safe Teacher-Mom.

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If you choose to stay home with your children, you are poised to provide not only physical safety but also emotional health.

Who knows your children better than you do? Is anyone else more invested in their physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental well-being than the mother herself?

You may be confident that you can provide the safety and attention your children need.

As you homeschool your children, there may be times when you become overwhelmed by your children’s daily needs.

The novelty of teaching and parenting at the same time and the question of how to entertain everyone and keep everyone engaged in learning could become challenging.

During these times of stress, it’s important to take care of yourself so that you can be present as a healthy, safe, and fun mom.

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Become aware of situations and comments that trigger you or tempt you to blow your top.

Do you feel shame when you think you haven’t done enough?

Do you feel upset when your children don’t perform as well as you’d hoped?

Are you comparing and measuring your children—and yourself—to other schools, moms, and situations?

Could you be pushing your children too hard? Are your expectations too high or too low?

Since you will be home 24/7 with your children, make sure you take time away to recharge.

180 Days of Self-Care for Educators can help you understand how prioritizing your own self-care will better equip you to positively impact student learning and achievement.

Read God’s word, walk in nature, read a good book, or vent to a friend.

Make sure that you are a safe mom to your children.

7. Pour on the Healthy Touch.

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No matter what option you choose for schooling your child this school season, there are things you can do to keep your child safe physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

A very important ingredient to safety and well-being is a healthy touch.

Make sure your child gets plenty of safe, healthy touch while at home.

Numerous studies have shown the critical importance of human touch to our well-being and safety.

Dr. Asim Shah, A medical doctor-MD who teaches at Baylor College of Medicine states that “touch starvation increases stress, depression, and anxiety, triggering a cascade of negative physiological effects.

The body releases the hormone cortisol as a response to stress, activating the body’s ‘flight-or-fight’ response.

This can increase heart rate, blood pressure, respiration, and muscle tension, and can suppress the digestive system and immune system—increasing the risk of infection…

‘Every single medical disease including heart attack, diabetes, hypertension, asthma—every single physical disease—is altered if you are more anxious, more depressed or if you have more mental health issues.’”

Source: https://www.tmc.edu/news/2020/05/touch-starvation/

You may not think that touch has anything to do with health, or that children need touch in order to be safe.

But in reality, their immune systems and health are compromised when they are deprived of the loving hugs, high-fives, pats on the back, and other experiences they previously received at school.

This means that it will be your job to fill in those gaps.

Becky Bailey, Ph.D. promotes the “I Love You Rituals” series on youtube as a way to incorporate healthy touch into your child’s life.

The four key ingredients of an “I Love You Ritual” are presence, healthy touch, gentle eye contact, and playfulness.

Sweet and playful connecting games, explained inDr. Bailey’s book, I Love You Rituals, can help increase the bonding and safety in your home.

Make sure to look up Ashley’s Conscious Life on Youtube to learn how to use “I Love You Rituals” in a day-to-day context.

Each of these tips will help keep your children safe during an uncertain time.

8. Social and Emotional Safety.

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An important element of safety that cannot be neglected is children’s social and emotional safety.

Many schools provide social-emotional training every week.

At school, children learn to calm themselves, breathe deeply, solve arguments, and make friends.

Children learn how to express their frustration in helpful words and have a positive attitude towards life.

It’s important not to neglect children’s social and emotional safety.

If you choose to keep your children home from school, they may miss their friends and teachers.

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They may miss the playground and after school activities even more.

If you send your child to a traditional school, they may feel stressed by seeing everyone in masks and by being introduced to rituals and routines that are completely foreign to them.

They may feel scared and startled by teachers who will no longer hug them, get close to them, or smile at them (due to social distancing and masks).

Social and emotional health are critical parts of safety.

Children whose emotional needs are not met are at a higher risk for anxiety and depression.

Are you listening to your children’s needs and point of view? Are you offering a comforting presence, understanding, curiosity, and kindness to your child?

These elements will improve their emotional well-being, which in turn promotes physical safety.

9. Other Immune Boosters.

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The addition of immune system boosters to your daily regimen can help to ensure your children are safe at home and in the community.

In addition to healthy touch and psychological safety, there are many other simple, practical and cost-effective ways to support the immune system and help ensure your children’s safety during this volatile time.

Vitamin supplements, good nutrition, plenty of sleep, and exercise are other ways to ensure your child stays as healthy as possible.

First, help keep your children safe by boosting their immune defenses.

Vitamin C, D, and Zinc are the most popularly recommended by medical practitioners for immune system support.

All these supplements come in different forms including gummies.

Vitamin C is a well-known vitamin that helps children avoid sickness.

Pediatric gastroenterologist Kadakkal Radhakrishnan, MD, helps explain why this vitamin is so necessary especially for battling the common cold- https://health.usnews.com/health-care/for-better/articles/2017-11-29/vitamin-c-does-your-child-need-it#:~:text=The%20clear%20benefit%20for%20optimizing,in%20prevention%20of%20common%20cold.

Zinc and Vitamin D are also important for strengthening your body’s natural defenses.

Vitamin D helps your children to build strong bones. https://www.cdc.gov/nutrition/infantandtoddlernutrition/vitamins-minerals/vitamin-d.html

Zinc keeps the immune system strong according to WebMD –https://www.webmd.com/vitamins-and supplements/supplement-guide-zinc#1

Second, help keep your children safe by ensuring they have plenty of sleep.

The Sleep Foundation shares, “Without sufficient sleep, your body makes fewer cytokines, a type of protein that targets infection and inflammation, effectively creating an immune response…. Chronic sleep loss even makes the flu vaccine less effective by reducing your body’s ability to respond.” https://www.sleepfoundation.org/articles/how-sleep-affects-your-immunity.

Third, emphasize exercise for your children.

Ensure that they are getting outside to move their bodies in fun ways.

In this way, it will work out for the safety and health of all involved.

10. Trusting God Brings Ultimate Safety.

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One of the most difficult admissions for you as a parent to make is that ultimately, you cannot ensure that your children are 100% safe.

Stray germs could come into the cleanest environment.

The most diligent teacher could allow a safety breach.

Danger could come out of nowhere. No matter how hard you try, you can’t ensure your child is 100% safe.

Even if you keep your child home 24/7, your child could be killed by a household plant, an extension cord, or a flat-screen TV! https://www.familyhandyman.com/list/things-in-your-house-that-can-kill-you/

Rather than becoming paranoid, we can seek God’s strength to rest in His sovereignty and love.

Ultimately, safety only comes from God.

The words of Psalm 27 describes an attitude of peaceful calm, trusting in the Lord’s protection:

“The LORD is my light and my salvation—
whom shall I fear?

The LORD is the stronghold of my life—
whom shall I dread?

When the wicked came upon me to devour my flesh,
my enemies and foes stumbled and fell.

Though an army encamps around me,
my heart will not fear;

though a war breaks out against me,
I will keep my trust.” (Psalm 27:1-3 BSB)

The next verses explain the reason why David can have such confidence.

His ultimate request is not for protection from germs or other earthly harm.

“One thing I have asked of the LORD;
this is what I desire: to dwell in the house of the LORD
all the days of my life,
to gaze on the beauty of the LORD
and seek Him in His temple.

For in the day of trouble
He will hide me in His shelter;

(God)He will conceal me under the cover of His tent;
He will set me high upon a rock.” (Psalm 27:4-5 BSB)

Ultimately, our safety comes from God alone.

When our desire is the presence of God, we feel the security of hiding under his wings—even if we do get sick.

We should continue to work hard and do our best to keep our children safe.

But in the end, we should entrust them to the one who loves them more than we do.

And in Him, we can rest.

Praying for God’s continued blessings and guidance………

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Self Care: 17 Ways To Take Better Care Of Yourself

 

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Self Care: 17 Best Ways to Take Better Care of Yourself.

At some point, you must press the ‘pause’ button to do YOU!

Do you feel stressed, overwhelmed, and worried about the future and/or the future of your loved ones?

It’s all of us, right?

To be capable to care for others, we must also look after ourselves, and be the happiest, healthiest, and best version of ourselves.

To be successful in anything, you need a winning mindset. Right?

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Self-care or self-compassion encompasses various ways to intentionally take better care of yourself.

And not feel guilty about it.

Jennifer Ashton, M.D offers  “The Self-Care Solution: A Year of Becoming Happier, Healthier, and Fitter–One Month at a time.”

Dr. Jennifer provides much insight on self-care and shows how beneficial a mindful lifestyle can be.

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Taking better care of yourself should be a priority, not only for your benefit and sanity, but also for the people around you.

The first step is to commit to your self-care routine with intention and dedication.

You can start your journey right here.

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At some point, you have to tell yourself, “I want to be better. I need to be better, for myself, my family, and everyone I interact with.”

Self Care, self compassion

 

Deciding to take better care of yourself does not mean you are selfish, so don’t feel guilty.

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With all that goes on in today’s frenetic modern world, all the responsibilities and challenges related to parenting and other pressures, 

We have to take time to reflect and take better care of ourselves.

“To be a good parent, you need to take care of yourself so that you can have the physical and emotional energy to take care of your family.” – Michelle Obama

Many times, we get bombarded with our work duties, other obligations, and community activities also.

We should not wait until we have reached a breaking point to purposefully begin to take better care of ourselves.

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“Women have to take the time to focus on our mental health – take time for self, for the spiritual without feeling guilty or selfish. The world will see you the way you, see you, and treat you the way you treat yourself.” – Beyonce.

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If you don’t catch yourself in time, frustration, anger, anxiety, and even depression can creep in and reap you of all your joy and happiness.

There are so many self-care activities available to improve our physical, emotional and mental wellbeing.

They include spiritual activities like praying, mental activities like practicing mindfulness, and physical activities like healthy eating, and frequent exercising.

These 17 ways to take better care of yourself can help you know how to let go and BREATHE.

What is Self-Care?

Self care is about extending the same kindness, love and grace you willingly and sacrificially show to others to yourself without feeling guilty about it.

Check this scenario out;

It’s 11:00 pm. You silently close your child’s bedroom door, grateful he finally lost the battle against sleep.

As your eyes dart from one stack of dirty dishes to another stack of unfinished projects, you feel bone-tired.

Your mind is a thick molasses. Waves of weariness wash over your heart.

You don’t even know where to start processing today’s argument with your children or spouse, the social media argument about complicated world events, and your argument with yourself about what tasks are most important.

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Tears slip out of your eyes as waves of guilt and failure wash over you.

If you have struggled to know how to take care of yourself as a mom, you are not alone.

During the COVID – 19 era, when churches, therapist offices, and support networks are closed, you could have tried to figure out how to take care of yourself emotionally.

Trying to care for yourself should be a natural and God-given instinct.

The Apostle Paul in Ephesians 5:29-30 said, “Indeed, no one ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church. For we are members of His body.”

God understands that humans naturally nourish, treasure, care for, and feed their bodies. He knows we automatically comfort, warm, and tenderly watch over our bodies.

But with children, marriage obligations, and work clamoring for our attention, we need more than our natural tendency to care for ourselves.

“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.”        – Jack Kornfield

In order to remain emotionally and physically healthy, we must become more intentional about taking care of ourselves.

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Here are some important thoughts on how to take better care of yourself emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually.

They are not lavish or expensive, but practical.

This keepsake is for anyone seeking to improve their mood, reduce anxiety, and be their best selves.

#1. Recognize Your Limits

Recognize your limits

In the beginning, God created humans to live in humble dependence on Him.

Who is the only one who is all-powerful, all-present, in control, and all-capable?

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It’s not us. Sometimes we are always on the go, being a “superwoman.”

As humans, we are created with limits. Immense relief comes from humbly recognizing that you are not God.

Experiencing God will help you get a better understanding of His sovereignty as He reveals Himself to you. 

Hannah Anderson, in her book, Humble Roots, says that we are often tempted to a “pride that desires to live beyond natural human limitations… We buy the lie that we could be omnipotent, always virile, never tiring, never needing rest. We buy the lie that we could be omnipresent, always available, never distant, never missing out.”

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Often, we think we can be perfect fun moms, involved in every activity, and providing our children and families with every opportunity.

We act like super moms, sometimes inflicting the notion that nothing will get done if we don’t do it.

And when we do, we become exhausted and drained.

Remembering our limitations—and humbly accepting them as an expression of our faith and dependence on God—is an important step towards wholesome self-care.

We don’t take care of ourselves because we’re selfish, proud, or egotistical. We take care of ourselves because we humbly admit that we’re not all-powerful—we’re not God.

With this in mind,  I hope you can examine yourself and your environment and decide to start to take better care of yourself!

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#2. Recognize That Your Body Is Your Responsibility

Recognize your body as your responsibility picture

Who could better care for your body than yourself?

In Genesis 1:28, God called humans to steward the earth and all of creation.

Have you ever thought about your body as being a part of all creation?

Hannah Anderson points out, “You may have never thought of steadying your body as part of the call to steward the earth, but it’s not that much of a stretch. We are, after all, made from the earth, a mixture of minerals and elements that have only been made alive by the quickening Spirit of God.”

Along with your responsibility to take care of your children, your job, your ministry, you have a responsibility to take care of your body.

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God desires for us to be healthy and strong and to take care of our bodies, mind, and spirit. “Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself.” – 2 Corinthians 6:19.

Fuel your body with healthy eating habits and supplements that are vital in sustaining your immune system and general well being.

Eat healthy home-cooked meals instead of ‘fast’ food.

Don’t unnecessarily tax your body. Give it the rest, nutritious food, and exercise it needs.

Don’t forget to drink significant amounts of water to stay hydrated. Water is very good for the skin, it helps digestion and boosts your immune system.

#3. Find Joy In Simple Things

Joy in simple things

God has created many beautiful experiences for us to enjoy.

1 Timothy 6:17 says that God “richly provides us with everything to enjoy.”

In his book, Pure Pleasure, Gary Thomas encourages believers to find pleasure in food, family, fellowship, and more.

He says that when we search for legitimate, healthy sources of pleasure, we will be less likely to fall into temptation and illicit pleasures.

Even when we go through very difficult times, we should look for the simple joys that are all around us: the sun on our faces, the smile of a child, or the gentle song of a flowing stream.

Looking for joy in simple pleasures is an important way to take better care of yourself.

You can look at old pictures, listen to your favorite songs, volunteer your time at a charity you like, get a massage, indulge in a bubble bath, join a women’s weekly prayer group or enjoy the benefits of your favorite essential oils and candles.

You can just relax indoors or outdoors in this!

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#4. Work/Life Boundaries 

Work/life boundaries have never been more important than they are today.

In a cultural shift away from remote jobs and towards in-home jobs, work has more potential than ever to invade every minute of our personal lives.

If you work at home, seek to develop a predictable schedule about when you will work and when you will relax.

Communicate to others when you are working and when you are “off.” When you’re relaxing, take it seriously.

Don’t even open your computer or your work email. Keeping your work from invading every minute of your day is critical in self-care.

#5. Process Your Pain

Process your pain

Unresolved pain, grief, or shame tend to sneak out in ways that are devastating to your body, soul, and health.

You may lash out at others or distract yourself with work to try to avoid difficult memories or thoughts.

Learning how to take care of yourself emotionally is critical for self-care.

Address even the seemingly small things that might seem insignificant like losing a twin sibling before birth, infertility, having a miscarriage, having a best friend move away, or betray you.

Acknowledge your grief. Talk to supportive friends and spiritual leaders. It’s been said that a problem shared is a problem halved.

Often communication with people gives you exactly what you need to hear for you to continue your journey in taking better care of yourself in the most positive way.

Read books on healing. Go to a therapist. Addressing your emotional needs is critical for truly relaxing and taking better care of yourself.

#6. Just Say No

Tree with saying "Just Say No" on it.

“Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.” -Anna Taylor

In Luke 4:42-44, crowds were begging Jesus to continue healing and helping them. But he said no. He had to move on to other towns and preach there.

He didn’t allow himself to be dissuaded by popular opinions or by the demands of friends or society.

Instead, he simply moved on, “for I was sent for this purpose.” Jesus had a clear sense of purpose and values.

Tim Elmore recommends writing down five of your most important values and using them to help you make decisions in gray areas.

Eliminate parts of your life that don’t fit your values as a part of your self-care regimen.

Just learn how to just say no and don’t feel bad or guilty about it.

#7. Taking Time to Be Quiet 

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 Taking time to be quiet is an important part of any self-care love routine.

Psalm 37:7 says, “Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for Him.”

Psalm 62:5 tells us to wait in silence for God.

Then Psalm 131:2 speaks of the importance of stilling our souls before God.

Many Bible passages encourage us to live a quiet life (1 Timothy 2:2, 1 Peter 3:4, and 1 Thessalonians 4:11).

Make time in your life for silence before the Lord.

Wait on him and try to connect to Him from the heart. Still your heart and acknowledge that it’s not all up to you—it’s up to Him!

This implies telling yourself that you are going to pause and slow down at intermittent times during the day.

Try to relax, go to a quiet place in or outside the house, look around you, close your eyes, and take deep breaths in and out several times.

You’ll notice that you will feel more relaxed before you start off again. 

#8. Meditation

Meditation

Even if you don’t subscribe to the common cultural views of meditation, you can still follow the Biblical command to fill your mind with God’s word.

Psalm 119:15 encourages us to follow the psalmist’s example of meditating on God’s words and ways.

God told Joshua that meditating on God’s word would give him courage (Joshua 1:8). Paul told Timothy to meditate on God’s purpose for his life.

Try to find a quiet place where you can focus on a small portion of God’s word. Turn it over and over in your mind.

Try this as a fun lounge vibe.

You don’t have to spend 30 minutes in meditation every time. Two to five minutes—while in the restroom or while feeding the baby—are often sufficient. 

Meditate on God’s word and stop the endless soundtrack of frenetic thoughts that try to take your attention. Ponder on the Lord and His love for you for two minutes.

#9. Stretching

Stretching

Wondering how to take care of yourself as a mom? Consider adding stretching into your life. A simple internet search will lead to easy stretches that you can do any minute of the day.

Watching your kids in the park, you can do a slow nod exercise or a hip flexor stretch.

Before you wind down for the night or while the kids are asleep or at school, you can take a little time, inhale, exhale and stretch.

Watch how much relief you’ll experience.

These are so inconspicuous that no one will even notice you are stretching!

If you work a desk job, try to get up every hour and stretch. Your blood will start to flow and you will notice an increased mental acuity.

#10. Journaling

Journaling

Commit to journaling regularly as an important way of processing your emotions, understanding your life, releasing your frustration, and taking care of yourself emotionally.

Boundaries for the Soul: How to Turn Your Overwhelming Thoughts and Feelings into Your Greatest Allies By Allison Cook provides some important jumping-off points for journaling about triggering events.

It is very healing to write down your responses to Allison Cook’s probing questions in this book.

Her questions will help you get some distance from overwhelming emotions, talk to them kindly as if they were frightened children, comfort them with the love of Jesus, and re-integrate them into your renewed purpose.

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Journaling is an important way to process your feelings, encourages self-awareness, and improves your mood.

Some ideas on how to start journaling are to start with positive inner reflections first like what makes you happy, what inspires you, your idea of a good day, eight things you love about yourself and your family, what makes you proud about yourself.

#11. Gratitude Diary

Gratitude and gratefulness

Gratitude is a feeling of appreciation and thanks.

It focuses on the positive.

What are the three things you are thankful for today? Is the sun shining?

Can you breathe freely?

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Do you have food to eat and a place to live?

Is there someone in your life that has shown you that you matter to them?

A gratitude journal helps you to focus your attention on positive things in your life, great or small.

First Thessalonians 5:18 says, “In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Regardless of the circumstances, you can find at least three things to be thankful for.

Keeping a gratitude diary or journal helps you come back later with gratefulness and remember what God has done, making your day more productive and focused.

#12. Spend Time Outdoors

Spend time outdoors for self-care

A park, field, or stream is an excellent place to work on self-care. You might want to spend some time walking by yourself or with a friend.

Almost any of these self-care ideas can be done outside. You can exercise outside, express gratitude outside, or meditate outside.

You can even journal outdoors!

Sometimes, we find that we feel closer to God when we are in nature.

Spending time in nature can help your wellbeing and mental state by relieving your stress and anxiety levels and improving your mood.

#13. Eat Chocolates

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Chocolate should be a part of every self-care love routine!

Rich, creamy squares of luscious dark chocolates can boost your mood and give you renewed energy.

Try a piece by yourself or with a friend!

Chocolate edibles at any time of the day are not just refreshing but help you to relax and practice self-care at home.

#14. Listen to Calming Music

Listen to calming music

Wondering how else you can take care of yourself as a mom?

Listening to quiet, relaxing music is an easy way to take your kids along with you on your self-care journey.

Try Heartbeat Lullabies or calming nature sounds and music .

Kids can benefit right along with mom as you care for yourself with gentle, soothing sounds.

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Listening to music that elicits positive emotions can help you to relax and elevate your spirit, which improves your mood and general well-being.

#15. Smile More

Smile more

 

A clerk at the store, a child in your arms, or a neighbor across the street would be happy to receive your smile, which in turn can improve your mood, relieve your stress, and lower blood pressure.

Scientists have found that a smile gives your brain more feel-good hormones than receiving a large sum of money!

Smiling lifts your own spirits and encourages others.

Spreading smiles is free, painless, and rewarding. Make smiling an important part of your self-care love routine.

#16.Sleep

Sleep

Sleep should be a priority in our self-care journey.

Bill Fish, a certified sleep science coach and co-founder of Tuck stated that “Getting a proper night sleep is essential to our health,” in fact, sleep is now known as the third pillar of wellness along with exercise and nutrition.”

Create a sleep schedule and try your best to stick to it. That way your body knows when to settle to rest and when to rise.

A full night sleep promotes mental wellness and diminishes the negative effects of poor sleeping habits that include fatigue, irritability, anxiety, and negative thoughts. 

#17. Digital Detox

Distancing yourself from digital devices like smartphones, computers, tablets, and social media platforms help you to focus on real-life interactions and can make your brain to relax and also improve your sleep and focus.

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It is a known fact that many families and relationships don’t have many faces to face social interaction anymore.

Most of the time, everyone is by themselves and on their phone, tablet, playing a game, or on social media.

You could be in the same house and you are talking to your spouse or children from the cell phone. 

Develop a digital detox hour, hours, or a day that you’ll focus your mind on yourself to improve your focus and reduce stress. 

You can call it or relate to it as a biblical fast. Maybe that could help you keep the phones away and stay off social media for some time to rejuvenate and take better care of yourself. 

Breathe - self care

The journey of taking better care of yourself starts in your mind. You must understand your dependence on God and the limits of your body and spirit.

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The journey of taking care of yourself emotionally continues as you process your grief, change your thinking about your own value, and start practical steps like meditation, stretching, and journaling.

“Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.” -Oprah

How does this journey end? In reality, the journey of self-care never ends. It’s not a one-time deal.

But it does come to a culmination as you begin to have enough energy, passion, and joy to invest in others again.

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As you entrust your own needs to God and humbly accept your own limits, you begin looking at others’ needs as more important than your own.

The Bible instructs that you take care of others with the same attentive care that you take care of yourself (Mark 12:31 – The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’).

And, in this way, the purpose of self-care is complete.

Your mind is one of the most fragile yet most powerful things in your body.

It is so important to look after yourselves and learn how to look after your beautiful mind. And body too.

Are you seeing things from a different perspective?

Don’t make excuses for not practicing self-care.

You are so worth it!

Please don’t allow procrastination to rob you of the well deserved wholeness and happiness that you deserve.

“Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. If you want to fly, you have to give up what weighs you down.”
– Roy T. Bennett

How are you practicing self-care?

What routine have you put in place that is solely for you?

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